Life is so unpredictable that you get what is unexpected. I still remember the day my life when my life turned and my journey took some other turn.

Happy after completion of my MCA I returned back which great satisfaction of my placement in Infosys, just before joining I planned to visit my parents for a week but I was not aware that this one week is going to be a game changer of my life.

Along with my parents i went to attend my friends wedding and after we returned back home we all discussed about wonderful wedding and arrangements but that night is not as pleasant as we thought, that night was a nightmare for us and late night my dad got a brain hamrage with left side paralyzed and it turned our life.

Dad got medical facility after 12 hours due to remote area where we lived, due to so much paper work involved in our system without which we can’t move our dad for next better hospital, but his will power and his love towards life and us made him survived , and when doc said 70% brain is affected we all went in little depression.

I took my decision of not going back to Bangalore and will stay with my parents as someone is needed at home that time and left my placement in Infosys and joined Lucknow University as a Lecturer . Never expected this unexpected thing in my life. This #UnpredictableMoment changed my life, my career and my vision towards life. I was much more responsible than my age and my way of taking life’s decision changed within a night.

I don’t have any sort of regret of taking this decision in life but I feel daily that time when I needed papa most, God why planned this for me? I miss him as now he is not with us but still only one question “Why God why you did this to papa and then you called him … we really need him ..today and always ” 

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Ruchi Verma

Certified parenting teen practitioner, multiple Award winner, mother of two active kids believes in sharing the right source of information to readers which could help them in every possible way!!

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  1. This is a great one, Ruchie. Your father is proud and around today as you write this. More power to you 🙂

    1. Yes Ashwini he is my biggest strength

  2. Words cannot heal or do justice for your pain and loss, Ruchie. But I know you are one brave girl and this post depicts how strong you are. He would be so proud of you.

    1. Thanks for hopping and reading this one more chapter of my life !!

  3. Thanks for sharing such a personal story. Life gives us lessons in different ways. And we make our decisions based on the circumstances that are present, which is unique to each one of us. Proud that you took the decision to stay back with your father. I think you will never ever regret this decision.

    1. Thanks for hopping and reading this one more chapter of my life !! Yes I don’t regret my decision ever

  4. Some situations in life leave us vulnerable but strong. I hope you derive strength from your dad’s memories and look ahead in life. God bless.

    1. Thanks for hopping and reading this one more chapter of my life !!

  5. Actually Ruchi, I kind of know how it feels…! Nobody can take away the pain what you feel today. However, Situations may make you frustrated that’s the very moment you’d changed into a warrior. Never give up for what you truly care. You’ll reach your happy place for sure. God Bless 🙂

    1. Thanks for hopping and reading this one more chapter of my life !!

  6. Ruchi ..
    Powerful post. And I am sure that your father will be proud of you and your rightly decision.
    Life is all about unexpected u turns. But you lived to it.
    Stay blessed ..

  7. you r not alone…wat a co-incidence..i was caught in a similar situation…i was studying in Bangalore..came home for a wedding n never went back…my reason is different though…i had depression!! i too think “y god?” but what to do if lyf is so unpredictable…

  8. This truly reflects how unpredictable life is..More power to you Ruchi.

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