Raising up your star

My last post on parenting was about what things we should keep in mind raising up your beautiful daughters!!

Time to make sure what we should take care of raising our star at home too our son!!!


Boys are boys and always mother’s favorite… They are rough, tough and always active for some fun or mischief!!!

Few points which we should always keep in mind while parenting our tough boys

  1. Never say “BOYS DON’T CRY” 


Let your strong boy also show his emotions  -sad or happy encourage to show it to your as repressed emotions can lead to several psychological disorder.

2. You like cooking, dancing ARE YOU A GIRL 


Don’t stop him or judge him on his interest…allow him to choose & explore his hobbies & interest. My boy doesn’t leave the kitchen while I am cooking, he just loves watching me cook and asks me how I am making any dish, rust me I feel proud.

3. Don’t act like a girl


If your boy is coming up to you to show his emotions don’t tell him to stop as he is acting like a girl. Boys to have emotions and if he is coming up to u means he thinks & believes that you are his emotional anchor!!

4. You should be best in sports


It’s not important that if he is a boy he has to be best in cricket or football maybe he is good in other activities. Don’t put a social burden or your choice of interest on him.

5. Be a man, fight back 


Telling him that he is a boy and he should always fight back or fighting proves that he is a strong boy will not be good .. Yeah teaching him to stand up for the correct & right thing is perfect.

6. You should be born a girl


I have seen many parents using such words when their son comes up asking for kitchen set or a doll. Don’t use such words which are only used to hurt someone & have no means… God has created every person with different qualities we should respect them…

7. Enjoy your motherhood


Your young bodyguard is surely believe that you are his angel God send to him enjoy your beautiful time raising him a superstar for tomorrow. Enjoy every moment with these superstars and cherish lifelong.


Kids in pics: Aayush, Reyansh & Viraj

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Ruchi Verma

Certified parenting teen practitioner, multiple Award winner, mother of two active kids believes in sharing the right source of information to readers which could help them in every possible way!!

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  1. very interesting post with deep thought. loved reading it.

    1. Thanks!! Keep following for many more articles n write ups

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