Normal Mom of a Miracle Boy- #MujheSabNahiPata

Normal Mom of a Miracle Boy- #MujheSabNahiPata

“Life doesn’t come with a manual, it comes with a mother”

Really!! Do you believe this? I agree, being a Mom is the wonderful experience and journey for any woman, but hey being a mom doesn’t mean I AM A GOOGLE!!

I am a mother of two adorable kids and trust me both are my heartbeats but yes there were situations and times when I wanted to shout on a high pitch and tell world “Dude!! Mujhe Sab Nahi Pata”.

Recently I got chance to attend an event filled with moms like me who have different stories of their journey organized by ALL OUT a really special campaign which shares the same chord of mine that its good to be tough and speak out that yes #MujheSabNahiPata.

It was indeed a pleasure and great learning listening to the most wonderful and knowledgeable panelists Mrs. Sonali Bendre (Actress and Author), Dr. Samir Dalwai (Pediatrician), Dr. Rupal Patel (Psychologist), Mrs. Ruchita Dar Shah (leads the mommy community First Moms Club on FB).

Sonali Bendre shared her experience about motherhood where she was being judged many times by society and even Ruchita too shared the same about it.

#MujheSabNahiPata

Dr. Samir shared his experience too saying that it’s tough being a mom and be vigilant but it really need support and that support should be from father and he mentioned that today fathers are also taking equal responsibility for kids growth and health.

He explained how dengi, Malaria is dangerous and we should be careful for this, We should not overlook the symptoms, if your kid is suffering from fever and he/she is not active even after the fever goes down, don’t get confused with normal fever.

Fever with joint pains, weakness, dullness, rashes are alarming and you should visit your doctor immediately. We normally think Dengue mosquitoes only grow in satnding water, No!! It could be in clean water too. So, you have to be very careful.

Beautiful video of All out #MujheSabNahiPata was shown to us and wow…it touched me to the core and I feel it is maybe a story of every second mother in the world which took me to the memory lane.

#MujheSabNahiPata

Who said after becoming mother social and family pressure starts … No!! It begins from the time you conceive and announces your pregnancy!!

My #MujheSabNahiPata Experience

In 2014, when I told my family that yes..I am going to be Mom for the second time all kind of suggestions and gyaan started flowing from everywhere. I followed them too, but my doc said: “Ruchi you need proper bed rest due to some initial complications”.

I called my in-laws and went on proper bed rest as I really don’t want to take any chance. Week 24th and my baby was too active inside not even make me rest. I used to cry and tell I can’t sleep even. All used to tell me..”Its good baby is active”.

It was 2nd April my husband was out of town (It’s a long way to go for delivery) and I was with my mom and early morning I told my mom we need to go to the hospital now. It’s just my 6th month going on… we rushed to the hospital and the doctor admitted me for observation. I called back my husband saying not feeling good, he tried to tell me to stay calm as all will be fine and he will be back any moment.

My water bag got raptured and full water got discharged. I delivered my little Miracle boy in 25th week and doctors told us that hopes are less but he survived like a fighter.

#MujheSabNahiPata

But, I faced everyday n numbers of questions from everyone who ever comes to meet me or call me “ What have you done? Why delivery so early? Have you picked something heavy? Have you gone out? Have you driven?

I was tensed in the same way for my son or maybe more than anyone … I planned my baby and took every good precaution I really don’t know what happened!! I was on the same stage not knowing how things turned this way.

It’s not only when you become a mother family, society or anyone starts questioning you it starts from the time you announce your pregnancy and trust me #MujheSabNahiPata

Today my son is a healthy and active baby..but still, even my liftman or watchman or even my maid tell me …Give proper meal he looks very thin? Why he is so thin? Why this ?? why that?? There are many questions whose answers even I don’t know why??

He is an active and healthy baby that matters to me, but society keeps me judging as he looks thin.

I give him proper diet and proper nutrients now it’s his body structure he is not gaining fat … now this should not be the reason to judge me as a mom …as I am a NORMAL MOM #MujheSabNahiPata

As we ended the session with tying a knot to remind myself to say loud when I don’t know anything and keep on sharing my experience to fellow moms so that we can learn from each other and make our motherhood more exciting and loveable journey.

#MujheSabNahiPata

Like me, you must have gone through such moments in life do share your such moment in comment section below..may be your #MujheSabNahiPata.

© Ruchie Verma.

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34 thoughts on “Normal Mom of a Miracle Boy- #MujheSabNahiPata

  1. Aapne to bahut struggle kiya, samjh sakti hu ki aapki haalat kya rahi hogi
    Thank God beta ekdum healthy hai ??

    1. Thanks !! Yes it was a tough time but I believe God gives the tough situation to the most loved and strong child and I am God’s fav

      1. Child was born in the 25th week. If God allow me to worship after him. Then surely I will worship my MOM.

  2. Totally relate to your situation dear, even J have some complications and ppl always blame the mother, Alhamdhulilha my kids are fine and healthy. Masha Allah your sons look handsome as far he is healthy then don’t need to worry for his physic.

  3. Very beautifully put up Ruchi ! Loved this campaign and the thought behind. We cannot know it all but we can always learn and get better. You look beautiful in saree !

  4. I wish , I could have been a part of this event…I am sure it would have been very insightful and interesting with a brave lady like Sonali Bendre!

  5. That seems to have been a really interesting and informative session. Mujhe Sab Nahi Pata is close to every mom’s heart, and something that most moms can identify with. It is always so nice to have a forum to share experiences and best practices.

  6. I am so glad and happy to see such events happening. It’s tough to be a parent specially a mother and sometimes a little support from the family is required. Sending this to my mum with lots of love! Thanks for sharing! 🙂

  7. Haan mujhe sab Nahin pata . I am a human being or else I would be a super woman no! I have always tried todo best for my child and that nobody has the right to complain about and find faults.

  8. #wigglingBirthday.
    Miracle boy was born in 25th week.
    Yes i have a “mujhe sab nahi pata” moment.
    It was when i got my 2nd child. When i had only first one, everything was going fine and well. But after birth of my 2nd one, when my first one was only 3 yrs, my life took a roller coster ride. I was not able to balance between 2 kids, and home.
    Then i got a call from school of my son. Teacher wanted to meet me. I went and was surprised to hear all complains about my son. Teachers were also seeing the sudden change in him. Beacuse i was becoming strict and a bit rude too in order to finish all my work. I didnt realised what effects it is pouring on my little one. #MujheSabNahiPata. I came home and cried… That i have failed in parenting. But then my neighbour came to me seeing me weeping and asked me to just give time to everything. Home chores, cleaning, its all not so important at this time. And moreover ask help from people near you. And all will get on track …
    And slowly it happened.

  9. Haan mujhe Sab nahin pata. Hai RUCHI! Smile of happiness with good health comes to all our both human required support.Thanjs Respected team for fantastic Giveaway.

  10. Amazing that the child was born in the 25th week and all went ok. Pregnancy is a jittery stage full of uncertainty and alas when the child is in your arms all stress n worries go away and you become so protective of the little bundle .

  11. #WigglingBirthday Miracle boys are born in month of APRIL.
    #mujhesannahipata moment will come in every stage of motherhood life. When suddenly behaviour of my daughter changes, she becomes quite rude and irritated, everyone asks me but I found it “mujhesabnahipata” moment.

  12. The miracle boy was born in the 25th week of Ruchis pregnancy.
    Yes even I have faced many moments where I get irritated and say #MujheSabNahPaata when each and every member of my family start asking for their stuffs when we are off a party or a wedding. They all want their dresses makeup socks handkerchiefs everything to be perfect and keeps on asking where is this and that. At that moment I just say them it’s your house too go and search.

    #ContestAlert #Wigglingbirthday

  13. #WigglingBirthday
    Wow, what an article. A big salute to you and your darling MIRACLE BOY for being such brave and fighting back the odds in the society! The answer to the question is your Miracle Boy was born on the 24th week (6 months of gestation) who is now a healthy and hearty individual. I wish you and him all the good luck and love. Do not listen to the society as it is rightly said ‘Ignorance is bliss’ ?

  14. Dear Ruchi Verma,

    Wow… What a wonderful narration….lovely put up…first of all thanks for this blog…

    When I about to read some other blogs I have seen the sentence

    ??mujhe sab nahi pata – a four simple words but has power lift major weight to mother’s shoulders??

    Yes I came across the moment..I know motherhood is the journey of everything such as joy, love, learning and mistakes….

    Your Miracle boy was born in ????25th week gestation…I know the feelings of yours…but you are a brave women…now you have cute boy…god bless him..

    Yes i have a “mujhe sab nahi pata” moment. When I heard i was pregnant on may 2018 ,my family was happy…they treated me like queen in husband home..

    After 5 th month scan, we came to know my baby is not growing well just 400 grams… everybody started to scolding me…it’s all because of you….you didn’t take supplements well…proper diet…though I correctly followed everything…

    I was totally upset and in pressure…they started to scold me it’s all bcoz of you…but doctor said it may be heredity or because of umbilical cord issues of …but they didn’t accept…that too that was my first pregnancy…atlast 7 month completed…at the starting of 8th month I went for checkup they told your baby is below the growth percentile…so we go for c-section…I made ready for that moment atleast my child would be safe…but they tried for normal suddenly my baby’s heartbeat reduced..

    “mujhe sab nahi pata” what Todo…I suddenly fell down…I forgot myself…

    After done emergency c-section he born with the weight of 1.5kg…i was happy but not…coz doctor told anything may happen…again all scolded me…but after 10 days in incubator doctor gave him to me and said take care…

    That’s my baby boy…

    He is just 3 months old… everything was happened in February….just three months back…people are scolding the women for each and every reason during pregnancy…but your story inspired me a lot…

    Thanks a lot…lovely.. message…your story inspired me…evrn every relative asking me till now why he is so lean…..now he is good…and very active… I should thank God for him…by this post I became fan of you…

    Because we both faced “mujhesabnahipata
    Moment….

    Thanks….
    Write more blogs ….

    #WigglingBirthday

  15. It’s #wigglingBirthday ?????
    The Miracle boy born on 25th week.

    Yes I do have #MujheSabNahiPata moments.
    My son was 2+ years old.. and he was super active.. and one day when he was playing . I pulled his hand to lift him and take him for bath.. and suddenly he started crying loudly.. I asked what happened he showed his hand .. he was crying continuously.. so do I ? ..
    I ran to our doctor and done x-ray ..his bone was fine.. but was misplaced.. later Dr. Surekha shown me the way it has to be fixed again but pulling it from wrist and some more things need to be done.. and my son stopped crying like magic.. being mother worst time is when your child cry in pain and you are totally helpless.. later doctor told never pull any child with his one hand!! This was One of the worst time if my life..

  16. The miracle boy was born in the 25th week of Ruchis pregnancy.
    Yes even I have faced many moments where I get irritated and say #MujheSabNahPaata when each and every member of my family start asking for their stuffs when we are off a party or a wedding. They all want their dresses makeup socks handkerchiefs everything to be perfect and keeps on asking where is this and that. At that moment I just say them it’s your house too go and search.

    #ContestAlert #Wigglingbirthday

  17. #WigglingBirthday
    The miracle boy was born during 25th week of pregnancy.
    Belonging from medical field I had treated many patients who were eager to have a child. Many used to enquire as to how many kids I had? My reply used to be non! They would further ask but why? I had to reply Mujesabnahipata! It was a very perplexing reply for them! Some were confused whether my treatment will bring any positive result for them! While some left my clinic wishing me good luck,providing empathy,while others said all is in God’s hand! It was during my 6 years of my marriage that I was blessed with bundle of joy in my hand . .my soulmate. . Our daughter!
    Till then it was too tough in giving answers to all!
    Nearly 80% of my patients were pregnant but I had to accept the grace of God till Luck favored me!
    I must confess . . God knows what & when is best time for us & accordingly we are gifted!

  18. Miracle boy was born on the 25th week. I must say both the mumma and the baby are fighters. God bless you both. #wigglingbirthday @wigglingpen

  19. The miracle boy was born in the 25th week of Ruchis pregnancy.
    Yes even I have faced many moments where I get irritated and say #MujheSabNahPaata when each and every member of my family start asking for their stuffs when we are off a party or a wedding. They all want their dresses makeup socks handkerchiefs everything to be perfect and keeps on asking where is this and that. At that moment I just say them it’s your house too go and search.

    #ContestAlert #Wigglingbirthday

  20. The Miracle Boy was born on 2nd April 2014,in the 25th week of ruchita’s Pregnancy #MujheSabNahPaata
    And now he is active and healthy baby
    Just Happy for him
    Stay blessed #TheMiracleBoy
    #ContestAlert #Wigglingbirthday

  21. First of all, “Wishing you a day filled with happiness and a year filled with joy. Happy birthday!” #WigglingBirthday

    A2) The miracle boy was born in the 25th week of Ruchis pregnancy.
    Yes even I have faced many moments through out my LIFE, but I want to share my one of them with you….
    When I was 15 years old and my PERIODS started. Periods, initially were really disturbing and irritating for me. I used to feel- “What and why it comes every month?” I had to go to school, tuition classes, dance class, phewwww… And apart from that I was in hostel and everytime I sat down, I had this tension of “What if I stain my dress in front of all the people?” Then came the problem of changing the pad every hour. I found it really difficult to cope up with this pressure. Than, the time came when one of my friend asked me – everytime you faced this problem .. why??
    Then I said kyunki #MujheSabNahiPata
    .
    Then my MOTHER gave a tip which changed my thoughts about period. She told me the main reason behind this cycle and why it is important. From that day onwards, I pushed myself and decided to fight with it. Yes it is true that I stained my dress quite often but, I had this confidence that I CAN HANDLE THIS SITUATION.
    And that is the day where I felt proud and signified to be a woman.

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    Done team, done all steps here….
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  22. The Miracle Boy was born on 2nd April 2014,in the 25th week of ruchita’s Pregnancy #MujheSabNahPaata
    And now he is active and healthy baby
    Just Happy for him
    Stay blessed #TheMiracleBoy
    #ContestAlert #Wigglingbirthday
    Just hope to win this thing for my daughter she loves it ???

  23. The Miracle Boy was born on 2nd April 2014,in the 25th week of ruchita’s Pregnancy #MujheSabNahPaata
    And now he is active and healthy baby
    Just Happy for him
    Stay blessed #TheMiracleBoy
    #ContestAlert #Wigglingbirthday

  24. The miracle boy was born in the 25th week of Ruchis pregnancy.
    .
    No one person is perfect. Mistakes, just like water, are an essential part of life. It’s not for our faults that we should be judged, rather it’s the way we learn to accept our human nature and change for the better.
    It has been 10 years I have been working with an airlines industry. Six years ago, there was a time when questions about my work began to arise.? Those questions broke me from inside, it seemed like I have no reason to work now.? I was started disliking my life.??
    And then I said #MujheSabNahiPata
    For everything there is a reason.
    Than I Realize my value, not the material one, the intrinsic one. ?
    No matter how hard we try, we never seem to get everything exactly right. ??
    .
    Done answer on your blog…
    I am wishing you a great happy birthday from the core of my heart… ?
    (Jyoti Josie)
    #WigglingBirthday

  25. I must say, you are a strong woman dear and your little one is the real fighter. God is there always and I wish good health for your kiddo. As a mom we have faced these things so many times but its true that moms are not perfect . But with their love and care they can handle any situation.

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