"NO" itself a sentence

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Yesterday watched one of the finest, heart touching & meaningful Bollywood flick “Pink“.

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This movie will give make you think about so many facts we are really doing in today’s society without understanding what really happens or happened. Being a mother of a daughter &!I’m confused that should I teach my daughter to be bold  & fight or just keep her inside not encouraging her being a “NORMAL WORKING GIRL” as our society still think shit about girls working & staying alone.

I rate this movie ?????stars for sure, Thanks to Aniruddha Roy Chowdhury for casting Big B Mr. Amitabh_Bachchan as advocate Deepak Sehgal. All three actresses Taapsee Pannu, Kirti Kulhari, Andrea done ? % justice to the character.

Official trailer of Pink : Courtesy YouTube

One court room dialogue which reminded me one real incident happened with me I decided to write about it & pay my gratitude to my dad for giving me such upbringing that I got courage to speak up about it.

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Pic Courtesy:
Facebook.com/theindianfeed

Yes, I believe if a girl or a women says no by action or word … she really means NO!!

This incident is of year 2000 after completing my graduation ? with my dad I was traveling via train from Lucknow to Bangalore for my MCA.

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Pic courtesy
Google

As it was only me & dad travelling to Bangalore, we have with us copassengers in which there were a father who was going to leave her daughter to her grandparents home as her 10th board exams were just completed for holidays. She was a sweet girl and we became friendly soon. My father and my berths were upper and side upper and they had lower & middle berth, there was a man age between 40-45 who took his lower berth in front of that girl.

We both girls kept listening to songs on our walkman and he was talking to papa & her father. At night usually I don’t feel slept so I was just lying on my side upper listening to music ? and realised that something weird on lower berth. I saw that man was trying to molest that girl putting his hands in her blanket who was sleeping on lower berth too. I waited for sometime and realised that she was tensed and shifted herself to other side of berth and then also that shameless creature started putting his legs under her blanket.

Train got stopped on one of the station I pretended to sleep and realised he got up and pretended he is going towards washroon he pressed my feet, as I was watching him from long time , I kicked him and said “what’s the problem?” He got little scared and said “sorry by mistake“.

He went to washroom and little girl who was just getting no idea what to do, got up and said to me “ Didi that uncle is troubling me from last 1 hour… help please” I told her go and sleep and wait for me to call your name.

Train started again and his dirty ideas too but this time I was quite sure to teach him proper lesson as one kick was really not enough for him. As soon as he touched her, I shouted loudly “Switch onnnnn the lightsssss” & that girl immediately got up and switched on the lights, hearing me shouting my dad and other passengers got up and papa asked me ” what happened?” I told entire story and that girl was full on tears told same stuff to her dad.. but that shameless creature said “he did nothing just got up to drink water and these girls are making stories…

My dad who always taught me to stand up against wrong trusted me and we called TT and railway authorities took him away.

Papa said “he is proud of me as I took a stand rather being quite” today he is not with us but want to say thanks papa for giving my life meaningful teachings and strength to fight for odds without fear.

My only message to every girl to stand up for yourself and for others girls too & message to all boys “respect every girl as you can save your sister in that way”

©Ruchie2016

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Ruchi Verma

Certified parenting teen practitioner, multiple Award winner, mother of two active kids believes in sharing the right source of information to readers which could help them in every possible way!!

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42 Comments

  1. Brave post. I really feel proud of you.

    1. Thanks for dropping in and reading 🙂 Yes I feel so satisfied 🙂

  2. Sadly,most women do not have the guts to stand up.Society does not support us

    1. Yes I agree …but time to teach girls to brave enough to speak up and boys to respect for every one’s identity ….afterall we are who make this SOCIETY !!

  3. Of course the issues brought nothing new. Then, one need to be reminded again and again till some visible change in attitude happens.

    1. Correct !!! time is here to remind again …..Thanks for hopping & reading 🙂

  4. yes very true -“NO” itself a sentence. thnx for sharing this story

    1. Thanks for hopping ?& commenting

  5. I endorse the thoughts expressed herein.

    1. Thanks for hopping 🙂 & reading

  6. Proud of you! I do wonder what ended up happening (was their any justice) but that isn’t the point. You had a choice, and you made the right one. You may well have made a big difference in that girl’s life.

    1. Thanks for hopping & reading it… it’s about raising voice…yes!!! That gal definitely understood the fact that speaking up for such cheap people is the best way to teach them a lesson for life!!! Gals need not to worry about society & stand up for their rights & dignity!!

  7. Agreed! No in itself is a sentence! I loved the movie too.

    xoxo Chaicy
    Style.. A Pastiche! – styleapastiche. com

    1. Thanks for hopping,reading & liking it !!!

  8. Kudos to you!! so proud that you spoke up. Else imagine how many more girls he would have victimized!! Your story is inspiring !!

    1. Thanks for hopping,reading & liking d post!!

  9. Yes , its the way ….?? ??? ?? ?? ???? ?? ?? ???? ?????? ?? ???? ? ???? ?? ???? ???? ???? ?? ?? ??????? ?? ??? ???? ??????? ?? ????? ?? ????? ?? ??? ??? ???? ???? ?? , ??????? ??? ???? ???? ?? ??? ???? ???? ?? ??? ????? ???? ..| ???? ??? ?? ???? ??? ???? ??? ????? | ??????? ?????? ?? ??? ??????????? |

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  10. Brave. Everyone should stand up and speak out. Not speaking out and staying mum amplifies the problem. Salute you !

  11. So proud of you. I’m glad that you wrote it out. In fact, I had written about a similar incident that happened to me. If you would like to read: https://kohleyed.me/2014/07/15/the-lion-hearted/

    1. Your friend is real Mardaani… so glad u hopped here ?

  12. Pink is an extraordinarily made movie which talks about patriarchy in our society. When a girl says NO, no matter she is your wife, its a “NO”.For a lot of women who undergo abuse silently, this should help.
    Proud of you, Glad you put it out!

    1. Yes!! It’s a great movie… Thanks for hopping!!

  13. You did a right thing and its very important to stand up for whats right..proud of u!

  14. I watched the movie too and loved the portrayal and also the rule book that AB says. Such sarcastic ones! You did a good thing, something we all should do as educated individuals. When i say educated i dont mean the degress we have got.

    1. Ya rule book is great by BIGB !!!

  15. nice & thought provoking preview 🙂 not watch the film but your post honestly renders the real idea of the movie

  16. Well done Ruchi! All girls need to take a brave stand against such lechers!

  17. It’s your #IAMPINK moment, Ruchi. You deserve all respect and more girls should come forward and not tolerate such things. No means No!

    If you haven’t read my review, here it is:

    https://vishalbheeroo.wordpress.com/2016/09/16/film-review-pink-is-a-power-strike/

  18. Thank you for this lovely post. As always, it touched my heart.

    1. Thanks for hopping & liking ?

  19. Proud of you Ruchi! That’s really a brave act you showcased during that incident! Pink is really a good movie and delivering a very strong message to those who needed it the most! 🙂

  20. A much needed post & we need people like you :))

  21. Lord knows that speaking out, especially in matters that involve creeps, is far better than keeping quiet about it. More power to you 🙂

  22. People don’t have guts to stand for right. Feel proud of you. I agree that men should be taught how to respect and treat women. That’s a major factor our country lacks in.

    @bloggerabhi1 from
    StyleBurp

  23. Ruchi Verma….awesome blog….and pink is mind opening movie…I look forward for your blog…..
    Check out my new poetry….
    https://breadomlette.wordpress.com/2016/10/19/poetry-for-rape-victims/
    https://breadomlette.wordpress.com/2016/10/18/heart-to-heart-poetry/

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