[dropcap]W [/dropcap] oman, power to run this entire society nowhere less that men!! 

A woman has the power to give birth, can turn 4 walls and give it a place to live and called as HOME, a woman can take care of her kids with sleepless nights, a woman can run business and may be your boss to whom you have just applied for a leave.

When I was young, small, unmarried I remember if someone comes at home and we greet them and take aashirwaad they smile and says ” God bless you!” or “khoob padhoo” or “jeete raho” and we all know what does it mean and I used to be happy !!

I was lucky that I shared my childhood with my 3 sisters ONLY and I don’t have a brother, sometimes it hurts also but then I realize that today it’s good that I don’t have a brother else there would be definitely some arguments and fights!!

Now, when I am married and now I realize that this is “MAN Society” and really pity and sad about how these blessings also changed !!!

Once a girl is married, her parents does “KANYA DAAN” known as biggest daan in Hindu mythology and mother till her life only give good advice to follow “SASURAL ke RITUALS” and if in case you as a newly married girl or even have a confusion call your mom and ask should I do this pooja like this … mom’s reply would be “Ask your mother in law, do as she said “. So I understand why this Kanya daan is maha daan …

Coming to the topic:
DO YOU REALLY THINK YOU GET BLESSINGS FOR YOURSELF AS A MARRIED WOMAN?

I tried finding out what blessings we as a woman gets and what as men, our husbands gets!!

Blessings for your beloved husbands:

  1. Yashasvi Bhava: (Males only) which means may you attain eternal success with no obstacles in the way of achievement.
  2. Vijayi Bhava: (Males only) May you be victorious.
  3. Tarraki Karo: (Males Only) May you keep reaching goals and be successful.

Blessings for you as a Bride/ Bahu/daughter in law:

  1. Saubhagyawati Bhava/akhand subhagyawati bhava (to female only)- May you die before your husband and not as a widow
  2. Putravati Bhava: (females only) May you have a son. 
  3. Sumangali bhava: (females only): Again may you die before your husband and not as a widow

Yes, yes, one blessing is common for both male and female:

Ayushman Bhava/ chir–aayu bhava: (To both males & females)may you live a long life

but, this goes off if you have given above blessings to a woman. blessing generally goes to their husbands only if so, how to bless a married woman.

Other than this, all fasts are meant to be kept by a woman for “LONG LIFE of husband ” like Karwacauth, Teej, vat Savitri and above all these married women then after getting blessed with “Putravati Bhava” keep some fasts for their son’s long life !!

So, in short, fast only for the long life of husband and son, and still can’t believe we woman only doing this … yes!! I know few have broken this and few men started fasting for their wives too(but they are termed as “uff !! Jooru ka gulam” yes!! those men are real as they feel that their wives have equal rights to be blessed.

I have not kept fast for my son, I love him but because I have not done for my daughter so NO to my son !! and my fasting can’t proof that I don’t pray for both of them and bless them every day with healthy and long life !!

WARNING: this post is entirely my views, not to hurt anyone’s feeling!! I Love my hubby & kids more than anything else but questions yet to answer.. If someone can please …. 

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