"JUG"of my life


It is said “If you want a happy married life , you need to be a good companion and friend”, I was always worried when my mom used to say “There is a marriage proposal for yo , let’s talk ..” and my reaction was like ….”seriously is there any person who can be like minded and can handle me, my tantrums and my never ending wishes along with my mood swings.”

But it’s all about destiny and God’s magical ward who connect you to a person who is made for you…

Going to share my story totally filmy and totally social media connected. We got connected by his aunt who came to stay in our apartment just for a month for his son’s coaching in Lucknow and she saw me and watched me very closely. Well my dad was on bed taken up VRS due to his medical condition of being paralyzed and as we are only 4 sisters and proud daughters of such a wonderful human being I was with my parents to support them. That time I was teaching in Lucknow University and it was in my routine that after coming back from university in evening I make sure to take papa out for his walk and exercise in our society. Mayank Aunt got confused thinking that I am physiotherapist of papa who comes daily in evening for his exercise and enquired about me from mom after knowing that I am her daughter she directly given up proposal of marriage for Mayank

When I got this news I straight away said NO as papa was not well and I don’t wanted to get married and leave home and parents, but when mom insisted I mailed my biodata and photo to Mayank’s account and all his family and he, himself liked my picture and added me on yahoo chat (that time no smartphone or no facebook) we started chatting and I poured my heart out to a person whom I never met or never seen.

I told him straight away “I don’t want to get married as my parents are my responsibility ” and reply poped up “Let’s make this responsibility ours”.

There was something in him which made me positive towards marriage and I said “Yes, without even meeting him.”

He is Jug of my life as he proved at time when after our engagement when my dad got next attack of paralysis andwe1 I called him saying “I can’t get married as doctor said for expensive injections which is more important than this marriage ”

He came like a JUG and replied ” Ab toh shadi hogi chahe mandir mein ho …karuga tumse hi …this is not about money ” and from then till date he cared for me, our family and everyone happy.

Mayank is Jug who knows how to bring a smile on my face, he reads my mind without me uttering a word, he gives me true and unbiased judgment when I am looking for an answer. With him I’m complete, he is crazy, he is lovely, he is only one who is there in my every single heartbeat. We are ofcourse life partner but I know before that we are one another’s best friend. Love u <3 !!

#RuchiePens “am writing about Jug in my life for the #DearZindagi activity at BlogAdda“.



Ruchi Verma

Certified parenting teen practitioner, multiple Award winner, mother of two active kids believes in sharing the right source of information to readers which could help them in every possible way!!

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  1. You and your husband both are wonderfully human beings to take such care of each other.God bless your family Ruchi.

  2. Lovely post ruchie and I love the way you pour your heart out in your posts. Good to know about you and your hubby. Stay blessed!

  3. Beautifully penned feelings.
    God bless your family

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