Unsaid FEAR !!

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Every­one was hap­py at home with just a one tele­phone call I’m going to come this Sat­ur­day for a week to stayper­son on oth­er side told to Mishti mom!!

Mishti just like her name sweet 5 year old everybody’s life­line at home lit­tle girl , who always keep a big smile on her face, cheer­ful, play­ful, naughty and above all a chat­ter box of whole fam­i­ly. Her moth­er works in a playschool as cen­tre head and her dad is a big busi­ness­man. This call was from her dad’s friend Karan who stays abroad and in a mon­th or two keep vis­it­ing to fam­i­ly with lots and lots of gifts for Mishti.

Karan’s jol­ly , friend­ly & easy going nature make him pop­u­lar always in his friends and fam­i­ly, and Mishti’s dad & Karan uncle were school friends.

Mom entered in Mishti room and told her ” Mishti , Karan uncle is com­ing on Sat­ur­day for a week, it’s going to be a fun full week …right!!”

Mishti was blank and ran towards stairs and sit qui­et­ly for hours with­out utter­ing a word.

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She want­ed to run to Mum­ma and talk but scared and her fear of loos­ing her mom was big­ger to her than speak­ing her fear out.

Days passed & that unwant­ed Sat­ur­day came along with Karan uncle .…. Every­one wel­comed him and Mishti was hid­ing behind her mom ..

Karan uncle said ” She is still shy girl , see what all toys I got for you

Mishti ran away in her room. Every­one was quite sur­prised with her behav­iour, her mom was lit­tle wor­ried as she nev­er saw this behav­iour of Mishti before any guest.

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Next 2 days they just enjoyed going dif­fer­ent places with Karan Uncle but every time they go out­ing Mishti just don’t let her mom go out for sec­ond leav­ing her alone. She used to be quite, in her­self kind of child.

Mom got wor­ried & spoke to dad that she is wor­ried about Mishti as she nev­er behaves like this.. She said I feel like some­thing is wrong & I should talk to her to know her “Unsaid fear

 Mom thought to take out Mis­thi alone out­side and talk. They went to park , Mis­thi was real­ly hap­py with mom, she enjoyed a lot with her friends. Mom was hap­py to see her like this back to old Mishti.

While return­ing home mom start­ed talk­ing Mishti about her changed behav­ior and her unsaid fear & it shat­tered her from inside to know what her daugh­ter gone through in such age .

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Mom : ” What is mak­ing my Mis­thi sad & upset ?

Mishti: ” Noth­ing mom , can we go to grand­ma place for 3–4 days now”

Mom: But we have guest Karan uncle at home this week , you don’t want to enjoy with him and go out”

Mishti : NO

Mom : I think Mishti we both are best friends and you can share with me.

Mishti : No, mom if I tell you he will kill you & I Love you so much.

Mom( shocked) : What are you say­ing ? Who will kill me ? Who said the­se things to you ?

Mishti : start­ed cry­ing.… Lost of words!!!

Mom: Ok Mishti ! Don’t wor­ry , believe me I will keep it secret & no one can harm me .. Let’s go to your fav ice cream par­lour. You can have your fav straw­ber­ry ice cream & we can talk.

On the way to ice­cream par­lour unwant­ed thoughts which mom nev­er want­ed to think about start­ed com­ing. This was her longest dri­ve from park to ice cream par­lour.

 Reach­ing par­lour she ordered Mishti’s fav ice cream start­ed play­ing with her to make her com­fort­able.

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Then she asked her Mishti now tell me baby who told you so bad words? 

Mishti : Karan Uncle said.

Mom(Surprised & Shocked) What & Why? Tell me every­thing baby?

Mishti: Last time when he came he came in my room & start­ed play­ing with my doc­tor set and said he is doc­tor & he will check me, but after some­time when I said I’m not lik­ing it the way you are check­ing , he said it’s new game and you will enjoy. Mum­ma he has given me pain I cried , he said if you told mum­my I will kill her.

Mishti’s mom was shat­tered but not dumb to under­stand unsaid fear her daugh­ter hold­ed so many days with­in her­self . She wast­ed no time to call Mishti dad & ask him to meet near­by police sta­tion. She hugged Mishti & given her con­fi­dence that this is nev­er going to hap­pen ever again with her.

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She rushed to police sta­tion & with­in no time after her & Mishti father’s com­plain police arrest­ed Karan & put him behind bars..

Mishti is not only girl who has gone through this but like her many are daugh­ters who are liv­ing with this unsaid fear.…we as a par­ent have to keep a watch on dif­fer­ent & sur­prise behav­ior of your kid like Mishti mom did & give them con­fi­dence & love so they can speak up & tell u the truth.

There are num­ber of cas­es unheard, but if you notice any sus­pi­cious activ­i­ty in your or any known child DON’T ignore!!

CHILD LINE : 1098

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In 1996, CHILDLINE India Foun­da­tion (CIF) launched CHILDLINE, the country’s first toll-free tele-helpline for street chil­dren in dis­tress. As of March 2015, total of 36 Mil­lion calls since incep­tion have been ser­viced by CHILDLINE ser­vice and oper­ates in 366 cities/districts in 34 States/UTs through its net­work of over 700 part­ner organ­i­sa­tions across India.

Check more details: http://www.childlineindia.org.in/1098/1098.htm

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Kids need love, sup­port, care, trust to nour­ish & grow. Don’t let any girl to go as Mishti goes.

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Thanks for being here & read­ing please do post your valu­able com­ments & feed­back!! Let’s promise to give every child a child­hood they deserve

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13 thoughts on “Unsaid FEAR !!

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    I am look­ing for­ward forr your next post, I’ll trry to gett tthe hang of it!

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