7 Vows..NewSetGo

Day 3

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Sev­en colours of rain­bow , sev­en sur in music …same way mar­riage is a beau­ti­ful jour­ney of the­se sev­en colours n sur which make mar­ried life melo­di­ous. Mar­riage is what tie two beau­ti­ful peo­ple in a jour­ney which we can 7 janam ka saath with 7 Phere or say 7 vachan…

I have also tak­en the­se 7 vachan while tak­ing 7 phere but I seri­ous­ly don’t remem­ber word by word.

I don’t say to change the­se vows but lit­tle addi­tion in todays life need­ed which should be not dif­fer­ent from bride or groom but both has to take.

As San­skrit is not under­stood by all So Eng­lish trans­la­tion of the Sev­en Vows that you have either tak­en or about to take soon:

First Phera
Groom: You will offer me food and be help­ful in every way. I will cher­ish you and provide wel­fare and hap­pi­ness for you and our chil­dren.
Bride: I am respon­si­ble for the home and all house­hold respon­si­bil­i­ties.

Addi­tion­al vachan:

Both : We will share respon­si­bil­i­ty if Boy can wear apron in kitchen on week­ends, girl can pay EMI of that mon­th from salary.

Sec­ond Phera
Groom: Togeth­er we will pro­tect our house and chil­dren.
Bride: I will be by your side as your courage and strength. I will rejoice in your hap­pi­ness. In return, you will love me sole­ly.

Addi­tion­al vachan:

Both : We will not Judge each oth­er
cer­tain activ­i­ties of part­ner may both­er but to make a life­long com­mit­ment we will not put each oth­er under the scan­ner at every stage.

Third Phera
Groom: May we grow wealthy and pros­per­ous and strive for the edu­ca­tion of our chil­dren. May our chil­dren live long.
Bride: I will love you sole­ly for the rest of my life, as you are my hus­band. Every oth­er man in my life will be sec­ondary. I vow to remain chaste.

Addi­tion­al vachan :

Both: We both have friend cir­cle before we met, we will respect each other’s friends cir­cle & we will not drag bud­dies into your per­son­al space, but allow the free­dom to min­gle with their group of friends.

Fourth Phera
Groom: You have brought sacred­ness into my life, and have com­plet­ed me. May we be blessed with noble and obe­di­ent chil­dren.
Bride: I will show­er you with joy, from head to toe. I will strive to please you in every way I can.

Addi­tion­al vachan:

Both: We will be part­ners in par­ent­hood as it’s a joint ven­ture. We will be divid­ing respon­si­bil­i­ties and tasks after the kid is born, to show equal con­tri­bu­tion in the process of nurs­ing and nur­tur­ing the baby.

Fifth Phera
Groom: You are my best friend, and staunchest well-wish­er. You have come into my life, enrich­ing it. God bless you.
Bride: I promise to love and cher­ish you for as long as I live. Your hap­pi­ness is my hap­pi­ness, and your sor­row is my sor­row. I will trust and hon­or you, and will strive to ful­fill all your wish­es.

Addi­tion­al vachan:

Both: We will not snoop by keep­ing track of their Face­book or mobile activ­i­ties which can wear away the trust that binds us both togeth­er. Even if there are con­cerns, we will dis­cuss about them hon­est­ly with each oth­er.

Six­th Phera
Groom: May you be filled with joy and peace.
Bride: I will always be by your side.

Addi­tion­al vachan: 

Both: We are giv­ing our heart, as well as ears to each oth­er.. To lis­ten at time we need advice. We will try to Under­stand each oth­er view­point, If feel the advice given is not apt, we will express lat­er, but we will learn to lis­ten to one anoth­er.

Sev­en­th Phera
Groom: We are now hus­band and wife, and are one. You are mine and I am yours for eter­ni­ty.
Bride: As God is wit­ness, I am now your wife. We will love, hon­or and cher­ish each oth­er forever.

Addi­tion­al vachan: 

Both: We are start­ing off a new jour­ney, & we will treat my part­ner like a bud­dy (your part­ner in crime!).

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14 thoughts on “7 Vows..NewSetGo

  1. We both have friend cir­cle before we met, we will respect each other’s friends cir­cle & we will not drag bud­dies into your per­son­al space, but allow the free­dom to min­gle with their group of friends.”

    Being still a while away from mar­riage, I think this vachan stood out 🙂 I love the pheras and the vachans, how you have put them.

  2. Arti jaidka says:

    it’s real­ly nice and meanful.I would like to thank you for the efforts you have made in writ­ing this article.I like your style of writ­ing… Its real­ly Good . Keep it up dear .

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